Friday, January 28, 2011

Son, this one is for you.

Hi, hae, hello..damn, I don’t know at your time how you do greetings but this is what we do in our time..Wassup son? I guess you are wondering what I am up-to, well I am not going to keep you waiting.
This is Daddy at 29 years old, thinking of you before you come to this world. I don’t know when you will hit the first cry as you look to strange faces in a cold green room, I know you came from a warm place, with nothing to do, just relaxing, growing and enjoying good food without even chewing, Imagine!
I don’t know what age you will read this, but when you do then know there is a reason for it. By the way which music do you listen to? Me I’m hooked in Rap..i still Love Tupac, listen his lyrics to the born and he was a writer and poet like me. He sang about changing government systems, about how people do drugs that see them lose themselves in the society and get killed, and the funny part is he lived to his words, did drugs, sing some more and got killed. The rest, Google it (I hope this search engine still rocks).
Son, When you are growing, grow young at heart, always have new ideas, always be open, creative and feel fresh. Don’t let young energy die in you. By the way it’s a crazy world this one we living in. People will try to bring you down at whatever means, you will be subjected to rejection, you will be instilled with so much fear, and all this is to shape you and give you a chance to discover who you are. And hey buddy, you will fall in love. Let me talk some more here, a chick will drive you crazy that at one time you may steal my car to  go and impress her on some date, a chick will drive you crazy, that you won’t understand what mama is trying to tell you, in fact  you will drive your mama mad( your mum loves you son) for bringing home a chick and what the hell were you thinking sneaking her into your room at our house, next time son ask your mums permission, I hate to see her mad .
And son, don’t spend too much time in the bathroom I may think something is going on down there..and hey ,I love how you select your songs that sometimes sounds noise to me, but I believe it drivers your friends crazy, so go on be what you want to be, a music producer, a film maker, a lawyer, a doctor, find a passion inside you and let it out, don’t be afraid.
Respect women, always respect them, even the ones that break your heart, respect them and move on. It’s good luck by the way, Never slap them or hit them, at a time of anger and disagreement don’t say something that you will regret, always find a heart to forgive and hey keep your head up. Style up always and stay focused. If she is driving you crazy that her name keeps ringing in your head all the time, making you feel sick, don’t worry, with time this will go away. About hanging out with your boys, well, that you have to learn by yourself, but don’t follow the leader, always lead and trust your instincts. All the same, enjoy every moment of life, be happy and help the needy.
Work hard too, you will also want to own a beach house, marry a good wife and have a bright feature, this things only come with that(work hard) , thanking, praying and worshiping God and confidence in yourself!
Lastly, we love you so much as parents and friends. We believe in you, let no one try to bring you down.



Wednesday, January 26, 2011

walk away

My mind is filled with pressure of the day, I guess everyone gets them some day. Today as I sign off, I remember how people change in circumstances, especially friends.

Someone you trust to be your loyal friend just makes a bad comment about you and when you look straight into  their face you notice it wasnt ment to be a joke. You notice it was for real, that remark is supposed to put you down and make you feel hopeless.

When I experience such a scenario, I simply walk away and get a glass of cold water.

I can not turn the other cheek nor can I hit back, I simply make something positive to every discouragement i receive.